Are you falling in love with a forty plus dater when it should be just a shag on

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Are you falling in love with a forty plus dater when it should just be a shag on

Falling in love with a forty plus dater that you get on with is a truly beautiful experience, however when you are casual shagging it can be a very difficult time. When you realise that you have feelings for your date it can be terrifying, exhilarating, nauseating, and a rollercoaster of emotion that’s wonderful and hideous when you face the reality that it is casual sexual hookup and that you are not supposed to develop feelings.

If you’re fortunate enough to have met a forty plus dater and you are starting to feel a connection even though you are just casual shagging and think you’re falling in love with them, you’ll likely to be feeling very anxious as you are not supposed to be having these feelings when you are hooking up for a shagging experience.

Realisation that you are taking more of an interest in this forty plus shag than you should be could be a shock and make you question the wisdom of seeing that forty plus shagger again but it seems as though you are really looking forward to meeting up again. Oh no you have feelings for this forty plus dater, more than just a casual shag.

Your thoughts return to them and start to feel preoccupied with images of them when you last met them.

You make excuses to see them again and go along with the casual shagging idea so that you don’t alert the forty plus date to the fact that you have feelings other than a casual shag. You have to try hard to keep the atmosphere light and casual to hide your feelings that keep growing.

Unfortunately the more that you meet is peeling of the layers and getting to know that forty plus shagger more and more and they are becoming more and more endearing. You have to be realistic as this shagger that you are meeting for casual sex might be married and they are not in this shagging date because they want to build a relationship, so move away and end this fantasy.

This is casual shagging no strings sex then avoid the uncomfortable conversation and stick to the agreement that it is no strings and therefore no relationship future.

In The World xx

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