Create your opening line on your Singlesdatingcompany.com online profile
The fact is that first impressions really count. And this couldn’t be more true when it comes to contacting someone online as there is a very limited time to make a real impression on other online daters.
Online dating gives you a big advantage in that you have the time to think about and plan that first message so it takes a great deal of pressure of you, so why wouldn’t you take advantage of this lack of time pressure. Unlike the pressure that a face to face meeting creates, where the words just tumble from your mouth without the chance to back up and consider your reply.
So why do so many daters send an ill thought out reply that means that the communication grinds to a halt.
Taking a few minutes to really consider a reply or a first message or even your profile will pay dividends and could be the reason for your online dating success on Singlesdatingcompany.com.
Theirs might be the most beautiful smile in the world, but making physical suggestions will probably be offensive at the stage when you have either not even met or even spoken so please resist the temptation to get physical or overtly sexual on your messages and that goes for remaining fully clothed too.
While everybody enjoys compliments on their looks, focusing too much on physical looks seems to imply shallowness. Messages using words like beautiful and sexy will more often than not end up getting deleted immediately. Better to focus on interests, or even better, common interests at this early stage.
Mentioning your own interests can give the recipient a good idea of what you are like and if you have joint interests that could be an immediate point of discussion and common interest.
Ask a question about their profile or their interests it might help to start a conversation. Asking a simple question that requires an answer will allow you to start some meaningful communication that allows you to get to know each other better.
Strange how in the world of online singles dating we have always been told that self confidence is extremely attractive, but the opposite holds true with regards to online dating. Putting yourself down or being a little shy or awkward can come across rather endearing. Men seem to prefer a more confident atitude from a woman online.
If this plan seems a little analytical rather than romantic if it gets the results that you are looking for then that is a good result for online singles.