How to survive being forty plus and single in January with SinglesDatingCompany.Com
When it is cold and dark and the excitement and companionship that exists over Christmas and New Year is over and the rest of January as a forty plus single stretches ahead of you. January can be difficult even if you are in a loving relationship, but being single at this time of year can be particularly tough. How to survive January as a forty plus single.
Many forty plus singles can rate January as arguably the worst month of the year to be single. Not only is the period between Christmas and New Year notorious for coping with dark long nights and debt but it is alway a time when relationships break-up and the divorce rate is high and relationships tend to be tense and edgy.
January can be particularly tough month and if you have just survived Christmas and New Year period as a forty plus single. When you’ve been surrounded by family and friends and now you are back to being solo, it’s hard not to dwell on your single status especially if everyone around you is coupled up or constantly asking about your love life.
The the next hurdle for singles is Valentines Day and the hype that is attached to these periods is sometimes mentally exhausting when you are a single.
We all know that Valentine’s Day is vastly commercialised and your relationship and your self confidence shouldn’t be defined by a card and if you are lucky a bunch of flowers. However it is hard to walk any where without seeing cards with hearts and teddy bear declaring their love and if you are sick of seeing heart shaped balloons by mid February it can be a pressurised time for singles.
What can you do to survive being single in January?
Try not to beat yourself up too much for still being single and instead, try to make the most of the month.It is time to find a great relationship and if you have just escaped from a relationship that has some big hurtful cracks be thankful.
Use your New Year’s Resolutions as an opportunity to focus on yourself. If you feel good about yourself then it will increase your self confidence and it will give you the courage to joing a forty plus dating site.
Remember that forty plus singles have far more time to spend on themselves than those in relationships so use it wisely; take a new class, join a gym, or buy that stack of books you’ve always wanted to read.
It’s also important to remember that you’re not the only single and many really great people are looking for dates and companions on SinglesDatingCompany.Com
Hundreds of other forty plus daters out there are single too and feeling the same as you and they are joining online dating.
January is the busy dating month, so make the most of the month and spend it proactively getting your self confidence back and looking for forty plus companions.
After all you can by your own flowers and it doesn’t have to wait until February and you can treat yourself to a spa treatment and a new pair of shoes, who says you have to be down hearted because you are single. After all the online dating world is yours to explore !!
In the World xx
