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If you are content to be alone you’ll no longer feel that anxiety, or burning desire for relationship company, once you learn to enjoy being alone you will appreciate the time that being alone gives you to relax and enjoy doing what you want to do.
You won’t feel the need for constant interaction with other people in a relationship, or the anxiety associated with looking around and seeing no one but yourself. If you are fiercely independent and happy in your own company but still sexual and get randy and enjoy sex then a shag is your answer.
Life is filled with relationships, and most relationships only last when both people are kept happy and that can turn into a draining job depending who that relationship is with. Once you’re alone and you enjoy this time alone, the only person’s happiness you have to worry about in that moment, is your own. You can treat yourself to things that make you happy, but may have upset someone else or viewed as being selfish if your partner wanted to do something else.
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So often, we do things that end up upsetting other people in the relationship, or hurting someone else’s feelings by just trying to be yourself and have your own wind down time, and then you might have to apologise for it. When you choose to be alone you don’t have to apologise for needing your own time and wanting to pursue your own desires.
This confidence be alone, while still having the freedom to have sexy hookup dates takes a lot of pressure out of most dating situations. You get to stop second guessing everything you say, or every move you make because you’re afraid someone is going to be offended, or saddened, and angered.
So often we feel we the need to get validation to do what we want however if you are a loner and contented then you are responsible for your own validation. Of course, there are times where it’s not only perfectly acceptable to want a sexy and emotion meet up with other singles and regular sex is downright necessary but it is your decision and you are perfectly capable of acting on our own, instead of looking to others for permission to be alone or to be in the company of others.
When you start to spend more time alone, you’ll learn to trust your instincts and make decisions without any third party validation.