Reasons to break up with this abuser and find someone new on Seniorlesbians.com
If you are dating a senior lesbian who is making you feel inadequate and as if you are the crazy one when the reality is that their behaviour is just awful then you will be better off looking for a lesbian dater who makes you happy on seniorslesbians.com.
If your lesbian date uses a combination of distortion, blaming, forgetting, stonewalling, and denial to confuse, frustrate, and drive you to the brink of insanity. She denies the truth and twists your words, putting you on the defensive. She is attempting to make you doubt your instincts and even your emotional stability,, doubt the reality and your ability to reason out situations and act in a logical manner.
If your lesbian dater harshly and unfairly criticizes you and then he passes it off as “constructive and helpful” criticism, that is designed to make you a better person, and if you defend yourself she tells you that she is only trying to help you and therefore making you feel even more unreasonable and guilty, then you need to recognise that this is emotional abuse and it would be better for your self esteem and sanity that you break the relationship and find a new lesbian dater who makes you feel loved and appreciated online.
Undermining behaviour means that she minimizes your efforts, interests, hobbies, achievements, and concerns and trivializes your thoughts and suggestions. Belittling your restaurant and holiday suggestions, can make you feel worthless. If the things that are important to you are overlooked and she refuses to help or assist you but expects your devoted attention are all ways that will have you feel smaller than her and less important.
Abusive behaviour is not always verbal. Your lesbian partner may use body language or gestures to control and diminish you, like not making eye contact, or refusing to talk and sulking. Obvious boredom-crossed arms, showing disgust, rolled eyes, and frowning,, driving recklessly to scare you, a patronizing manner , laughing at your opinion, mimicking or smirking at your opinions are all belittling behaviour designed to make you feel and look silly and inadequate in front of others and place themselves in control.
If you are suffering with any of these put downs in your senior lesbian relationship then get out of the downward spiral now and turn your life around with a new lesbian relationship that builds you and makes you happy. Create your profile on seniorlesbians.com