Update your forty plus dating profile on seniorlesbians.com
When you first join seniorlesbians.com it is a real buzz looking at your profile and seeing all the messages from other forty plus lesbians coming in. It is thrilling to read the profiles and chatting to other lesbians and arranging to meet on dates.
Sometimes this initial interest can wear off and the messages appear to dry up and become fewere and fewer. This can leave you feeling a bit disillusioned and disappointed.
A few tweaks to your online lesbian profile can make your dating prospects start up again and refresh your online profile.
Take a fresh look at your profile, is it really you? Are you making sure that fellow lesbians know the real you and who you are and what you want in a lesbian date or forty plus relationship. Check that your picture are fresh and exciting and that you have a lovely smileand look happy and cheerful. No-one wants to spend time with someone who looks miserable.
Is this a true reflection of me and is it going to attract the sort of forty plus lesbian I would want to spend time with.Have another look at your settings and maybe change the locations that you are looking in. Ok no-one wants to date someone who lives 300 miles away but the next town might be the place your forty plus lesbian date is living in and it could mean meeting someone really special. After all you could meet half way!
Try to be as open minded as possible and open up your settings to the limits in terms of what you would find acceptable. It is worth keeping an open mind and heart.
Many forty plus lesbians are reluctant to contact other people first and that can be a drawback. Feel the freedom and liberation of contacting other forty plus lesbians online. This is a new world and you have nothing to loose and everything to gain. Take your fear and turn it into courage and enjoy the adventure. My favourite expression is `Live the moment’ So go for it !
Some forty plus daters can attribute the lack of success in meeting a forty plus lesbian to a fear of intimacy. Past heart breaks can leave you feeling lacking in self confidence and feeling unlovable or scared to take the plunge.
If you feel this could be you then work on that lack of confidence and build yourself up and you will probably find that the whole process becomes much easier, and more fun, as you are no longer fighting against yourself.
In The World xx